Tuesday, March 11, 2014

Red Neck Wife

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Had I mentioned before? Roberta was the 'It Girl' in my father's High School years? He went to High School in the small city near the town where I mostly grew up. I had actually been born in that city before its hospital had been closed down. Can you still be called a city if you no longer have a hospital?
Anyhow, back to what I was saying, Roberta was the girl, according to my father, that all the boys pined for in school. Of course my father didn't have a chance with her as he was a stutterer himself, so he broken-heartedly watched the jocks woo her and take her. Now at the cusp of sixty, my father found out she was available. Having fallen on hard times, she had recently been getting by as a live-in companion and housekeeper for senior citizens nearing the end of their lives. Once they expired, they would leave their money to her in their Will, and she would find a new senior in need. One of those seniors happened to live at the retirement complex not far from the family home and dad had bumped into her at the grocery store across the hayfield one day.
He then started to look her up and visit, but she played hard to get. After all she was living with the senior she was supposed to be taking care of. Still she could get an hour or two, here and there, for them to secretly date. After my older brother's wedding, my father let the secret out and introduced me to Roberta and we'd once in a while go out to dinner with her, Pappy, dad and myself to her favorite greasy-spoon restaurant several miles away.
Now you might think I'm using these adjectives and calling her a 'Red Neck Wife' due to some resentment I had toward her, but actually, not. She was proud of having been the girl all the boys had wanted in rural New England at the time and she embraced the image of the back woods culture. She had a son and as part of gaining her acceptance, my father put a horse shoe pit into the back yard of our house, roping me into helping him track down a source of free clay at an abandoned quarry. As her single son lived at an apartment, he now had an excuse to come out to play horseshoes at our house and in return have his mother join him to visit my dad. When over, Pappy had to make time in his T.V. watching routine at night to including any Stock Car Racing or Demolition Derbies that might be on that Roberta would want to watch. But seeing his son perk up with a new love interest after the years since my mother had left him, I'm sure he didn't mind.
Soon after the start of Nineteen Eighty, Roberta's latest senior to help passed on and Roberta was available full-time for my father to dote on and find things to do with. She had become a fixture at the family home by Spring and they decided to marry over the Summer with her officially moving in. Unfortunately, I was in Colorado at the time and missed the wedding, though I did get an invitation.
Thus when I returned to New England to start my Junior year of High School, Roberta was there. While I knew she was 'my step mother' I assumed she would be a hands-offish parental figure like my parents had been. But this was not the case. While I had been away, she convinced my father that I was too young to be in the half of the basement where the tools were kept. So my father had a steel fence built dividing the shop portion of the basement from the storage side. It was locked with a door and a pad lock. This was particularly galling as I had spent some of my free time the previous year cleaning-up the basement after a decade of neglect. The door with the pad lock barring me I had hung myself, though obviously not with the lock in mind. Behind that door and the length of fencing were not only dad's power tools and hand tools, but my own tools as well. During the years at the apartment town building myself a tree house, my eldest brother had bought me a selection of tools to use on the project. Six years later, I was now deemed to be 'too young' to use those tools without adult supervision. Needless to say, if I had wanted to use them, my father would never have made the time to 'supervise' me anyhow.
And yet, this was a game by Roberta as the very first week I was home, she told me where the key was hidden so I could have access when she needed something. After telling me where the key was, she then told my father that I had found out where the key was, neglecting to tell him that she had told me, thus there was this quick row as my father accused me of having searched the house high and low for the key, even though I hadn't. Once dad moved the key elsewhere, Roberta wanted to tell me where that was as well but I told her I wasn't interested, putting that game to rest. With that trick no longer fun, Roberta convinced dad that Pappy had grown too old to pick up his own Sunday paper at the drug store anymore and that I should do it for him. She then told him she had let me know. But as she hadn't, I didn't pick up the paper even though I could have all day; Roberta spent the day brimming with a big smile on her face and she wouldn't tell me why. When father came home from work, Pappy caught him on the way in and asked where his Sunday paper was. This lead my father to have a shout fest at me while I stood there dumbfounded without a clue and Roberta smirking in the background. As the local pharmacy had closed by the time my father found out, he drove all the way to the small city to finally find a store that was still open and had a spare copy of the paper.
While this was perplexing, I had many more positive things going on in my life: A new official job at the grocery store, ever more notoriety in my computer programing prowess, and what was rapidly becoming the best year of school in my life, so I just disregarded these little games Roberta would try to play to pit me and dad against each other. So she instead decided to take an 'active role' in my life by letting me know which friends I should have and which friends I couldn't have anymore. This was so she could make sure I knew all the 'right people' while no longer having my reputation sullied by being around the 'wrong people'. As these were friends I had known for years versus knowing her for months, I took these suggestions with humor but otherwise didn't worry about it.
After having retained its original layout since my eldest brother first moved out, his original bedroom somehow felt exposed with Roberta living in the house. My not as older brother had lived in it for several years after my eldest brother's move. Then it had simply become his, and then my relaxation room where one could lie on the bed and listen to music on the left behind component stereo system, including some of the left behind records and tapes. I had also used it as a reading room from time to time as I poured through a recently purchased science fiction book. But now, it was just there and she was in the house and I was afraid that either, she might junk everything in it one day, or maybe even perhaps her own adult son might move into it and make it his own. While the last thought was far fetched, I still didn't like the room's contents being exposed and decided it was time to break up the room and merge its contents into my room. The stereo and block & board shelves were easily transferred, but the bed had a wooden base custom made by my eldest brother over a decade earlier. As his bed was a single bed and the one I was using in my bedroom a queen sized bed, I decided to split the frame in half and then recreate it as a queen sized base for my mattress. All other posters and light shades adopted into my own room, the old queen bed frame was left behind in the now empty bedroom. No one made any comment on my doing this once they noticed and the bedroom my father had assigned to me a year earlier was now more than just a bed, bureau and desk. It was mine.
By Winter, Roberta had to make do having her fun by prodding my father to belittle me and make fun of me at the dinner table. After a few weeks of this, as I was working again and had my own source of money for food, I just stopped attending family dinner time and would grab a bite at work at the close of the day, or occasionally go to the local pizza place with my friends.
The nice thing about having Roberta there, at the house, was it had been cleaned and was being actively maintained for the first time since my mother had left. It was also warm during the winter. In the previous year, my father had complained that I was using too much oil to heat the house, but in reality he had meant that I was heating the house when he wasn't there, so I had gotten use to having a cold house on the weekends and afternoons and even sometimes wore my coat indoors, but this year, as it was for Roberta, the house was now kept in the low seventies all day long.
By Christmas time, I found out I wouldn't be going to Colorado again as my mother couldn't afford it. So I prepared for a Christmas at the family home and went out into the woods surrounding the house until I found a good tree, cut it down and brought it back. I pulled the long disused decorations and lights out of the attic and dressed the tree up as well as the living room and got the usual gifts for my father, Pappy, and even some things Roberta had asked for.
Apparently, at some point during her life, the french doors at Roberta's parents house had been broken and thrown away rather than repaired. Roberta had felt guilty about that for all these years and, for Christmas, she had talked dad into taking down the french doors in our house, which divided the living room from the dining room, and install them into her parent's home as her Christmas present to them. My father agreed and soon the doors which had been in the house all my life were gone by Christmas week.
As were Roberta and my father on Christmas Day. As I woke up Christmas morning and came down the stairs, I found my father and Roberta getting ready to leave with the presents I'd gotten them tucked under their arms. Hadn't I known? They were going to spend the day at Roberta's parent's house. They were taking the presents for themselves to open there and, as 'they never knew what to get me', they had decided not to get me anything this year. Also including Pappy as part of their Christmas day plans, I was soon alone at the house to find the solitary remaining present under the tree. It was for me, from my eldest brother.
Pink Floyd's double album 'The Wall' was just what I wanted and I took it upstairs to my bedroom so I could listen to it on the stereo player that same brother had left at the house when he had abruptly gone all those years earlier. Putting on the headphones to get the best sound quality, I lay in bed and listened to the album again and again and again for the next eight hours...





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